Dedicated to George Donhauser and Mrs. Clara Wilson
DEL HAVEN COTTAGES AND HOTEL
Early ads for this landmark at the north edge of Bel Air at the intersection of Moore’s Mill Road and Hickory Avenue were short and to the point…
“Strictly AAA ….Modern…..Phones….
Delicious Food
Breakfast…Lunch…Dinner…Sandwiches
Open Year Round 23 Miles North Of Baltimore
U.S. Route 1 Bel Air, Maryland”
“DEL HAVEN HOTEL AND COTTAGES
23 Miles North of Baltimore, Md.
Bel Air on U.S. Route 1, Md.
Modern Steam Heated Rooms – Private Bath – Garages
Large Dining Room – Excellent Home Cooked Foods
Fountain Service.
DeLuxe Furnished Cottages, Steam Heated, Beauty Rest Mattresses, Running Water, and Community Kitchen.
AAA Large Shady Lawn
Private Swimming Pool, Free to Guests – Showers.
Gas Supplies.
Handy to Churches and Amusements.
F.M. Irwin, Prop.”
As a kid, having just moved to a dairy farm outside town and on one of the many dirt roads in Harford county…I would ride my bike some two miles to have a Coke and pack of crackers at the counter in Del Haven. The waitress back then in 1953 was a dark haired beauty name of June Martin…and her beau, Mack Jones, would usually be sitting at the end of the counter sipping coffee.
To this 13 year old kid they were the perfect couple. After the Coke I would ride my bike around the hotel, past the little cabins and over near the swimming pool, before heading home to the farm.
My dad told me stories of dances on the roof top of Del Haven, with musicians serenading couples dancing under the moonlight. Some times folks would dance until the sun came up….then go downstairs for breakfast. Today, you’d be hard put to find a place as glamorous as the Del Haven Hotel and Cottages.
From an airplane it resembled a Christmas train layout, with little stone walls, paths and bridges over a stream and plenty of benches for folks to sit and take in the country air.
Maryanna Skowronski, the current director of the Historical Society of Harford County, lives a little south of where Del Haven was.
She writes, “When the Wilsons owned the store, my sister, brother and I used to collect soda bottles from around town and construction sites and we would haul them down to the store to return them for refunds. It was a great place to buy Popsicles. We used to explore Bynum Run, next to the store.
This was back in the day when parents could let their kids wander that far from home and not worry about them!”
None of these memories and reproductions of old post cards of Del Haven would have dug their way into my mind had it not been for George Donhauser, owner of Del Haven Service Center. In the past I have done photography for George and he asked me if ever there was a chance to locate some pictures of what once graced the corner directly across from where his service center now stands.
As the quest for photographs and images continued it made sense to me to learn as much from those who had direct dealings with the original Del Haven as possible.
An article in the Aegis newspaper, dated March 31, 1966, stated, “One of the oldest businesses in the county, Del Haven was built in 1923 by Felix Mack Irwin. In 1944, Mr. Irwin’s brother, Eldon E. Irwin, who was the owner at the time of the Del Haven Hotel in College Park, Maryland, purchased the Bel Air version and managed it until 1952.
“The second story ceiling, over the dining room, boasts 20-inch steel I-beams, with 8 plies of wood on top of that. This was done so dances could be held on the roof of the second story during spring and summer months.”
“The swimming pool coordinated well with the relaxing atmosphere of the quaint cabins and gravel pathways linking the entire complex together. There was a scale model of the hotel on the grounds and at one time ‘a mischievous monkey lived in the ‘little hotel’, near the pool.”
One such person who figured prominently in the history of Del Haven was Felix M. Irwin, and his grandson F.M. Irwin, III, who currently resides in the former Irwin home, about a mile north of Bel Air. With the help of the Irwin’s and another lady, Mrs. Clara Wilson, the piecing together of the story of Del Haven began to take shape.
Ironically it was Clara’s dad, William Martin Roberts, who, while living in the mountains of Ashe County, North Carolina, was approached by none other than Felix M. Irwin, who was touting Harford county ‘up north in Maryland’ as the place to go with your family and settle and do good.” Little did Clara realize that one day she and her husband, John W. Wilson, would give up their farm and purchase Del Haven.
Mr. Roberts listened carefully to Felix and pulled up stakes in 1927 and moved the family to Harford County where they purchased an 89 acre farm on Route 543, Ady road, a few miles north of Emory Church and south of Pylesville. Clara met her future husband while in the seventh grade at Highland School. She later attended University of Maryland School of nursing, graduating in 1943. She and John were married shortly after. A few years later, they bought the family ‘home place’ on Ady road and with 2,200 chickens started selling eggs and taking care of her dad. Meanwhile John, a natural-born mechanic, was working as a test-pilot and flight engineer for Glen L. Martin Company in Middle River.
A close brush with death on a test flight in 1949 left John and Clara with thoughts of starting their own business in Harford County. So it was again that Felix M. Irwin came into play when the Wilson’s agreed to purchase the already established Del Haven in 1952.
“Eggs were selling for $1 a dozen, and I loved the home place…I wasn’t that pleased when John suggested we sell my beloved home place and buy Del Haven. He was very convincing… every day by 5 o’clock in the afternoon, all 12 rooms were rented, and most of the seventeen cottages were occupied,” Clara pointed out.
“Del Haven was also one of the major ‘stopping off’ points for travelers between New York and Florida. It was really a bustling business for both of us sitting on a little over 2 acres…there were fifteen employees, including three cooks, a handy-man, gardeners, five waitresses, and three maids for the cottages. A lot to take care of,” she added.
“I had one rule for the place,” Clara points out, “No shenanigans, no gambling.” Harford County at that time was a ‘dry county’ meaning no liquor sales at commercial establishments. No drinks with meals, or if you wanted that you went to the Kingsville Inn, over the county line.
Clara added, “ We were allowed to serve beer with our meals.”
Clara and John’s big Del Haven venture was rolling in high-gear for about three months, open all the time, every day…by dinner time the place was usually filled up…the “No Vacancy” sign lit.
Then the Delaware Memorial Bridge opened, and traffic north and southbound could make travel faster…and some of the hotels, like Del Haven slacked off in terms of volume. “The patrons thinned out after the bridge opened. Some nights only five rooms were rented…we had to buckle-down and cater more to the local people,” she says with a sigh.
Clara continued…“We had to let help go…I never dreamed I’d be waiting on the tables. One night a girl I went to nursing school with came in with her husband. Here I was, with an R.N. degree, and here she was with her ‘doctor’ husband. So, I said, “It’s o.k., we own the place…and that seemed to make things better,”…she adds.
Ultimately we had to close the kitchen, and just kept the lunch room open. John made a trip to Elkhart, Indiana, where mobile homes were being made, and drove back with one, set it up on the property and started selling them…at one time there were ten mobile homes for sale, brand new, and ready to go,” Mrs. Wilson recalls.
Del Haven went from an enchanted oasis and prosperous hotel and cottages, to a grocery store, gas station, mobile home sales and then, a used car lot. Around this time John started mapping out plans to demolish the buildings and build a shopping plaza. He and his sons, John Jr., then 20, and Stephen, 19, took a 1957 Ford front-end loader and a chain-saw and began dismantling the main structure in the Spring of 1966 and the end of Del Haven as many townspeople and nation-wide travelers knew it, came to an end.
“We took it down bit by bit. It took about a month, and we were allowed by the county to burn the wooden parts of the building, far away from the highway. No one got hurt either,” remarked John, Jr. from his home in Florida.
Dale Neeper, of Bel Air remembers…“As a small child, my recollections of Del Haven are rather skewed compared to people who are older. However, I do remember going to Del Haven to get ice cream. Their chocolate nut sundaes were the best. We also would buy “hand packed” ice cream to take home’ I remember my oldest brother playing the pinball machine while eating the ice cream that he would buy on a regular basis.
“We knew everyone who worked there and the folks at Del Haven knew just about everyone who came in to the store. My Dad would stop on Sunday afternoons to buy an El Producto cigar to smoke as we took our family Sunday ride. Del Haven was our ‘go-to place’ when we ran out of something like bread or milk.
“My brother Roy mentioned the pool. That is where he was on the day WWII ended in the European Theater (VE Day). I remember Roy being sent to Del Haven to pick up bread, ice cream and, sometimes, beer. The ride down Moores Mill Road in those days was very exciting. He loved to drive my Dad’s car to Del Haven sometimes squealing wheels and “hot rodding.” More often than not, he would also run into some of his friends who were also at Del Haven picking up needed items.”
Today, as you look across Hickory avenue, where it turns into Conowingo Road, you see Del Plaza Shopping Center…anchored by the 7-11 Store and eateries, a tailor and dry cleaning shop, a fitness center, florist and hair salon. At the time of the razing of the original buildings, Mr. Wilson had said, “I anticipate a drug store, laundromat, barber shop, beauty shoppe and a food market.” Giving way to the future, the Del Plaza property was sold by the Wilsons in February 2002. John, Sr. passed away March 31. 2008.
One of the first stores to open was a 7-11 market and a two-bay service station. Different proprietors and various establishments followed. One of the original cabins is still standing today, across Conowingo Road from the original location. At one time it served as a home for Coy Greek Irwin, a brother of the founding Irwin’s.
He was a barber and cut hair in the little cabin. I had heard that ‘Greek’ owned a Stradivarius violin and he often could be heard playing it on the little porch of the cabin. Family members know of him ‘playing the fiddle often but think the Stradivarius story is mythical.’
‘Greek’ was sometimes tormented by the kids who came to Reuben’s, a drive in restaurant adjacent to Del Haven. He was known at times to fire a shot from his .22 over the heads of hecklers hanging out at Reuben’s. and to shoot out floodlights on the parking lot at the popular drive-in.
Today, a little bit of the story survives in that little white frame cabin. Some of the cottages were of brick construction, others were wood frame. Felix M. Irwin, Jr., known as “Buddy Irwin” passed away in 2002, and his son is the current resident with his family north of Bel Air on the original home-place of the grandfather Felix Mack Irwin, who died in 1969. His body and some of his family are entombed in a large white marble crypt in Mount Zion cemetery near Fountain Green.
For those who recall the ‘good old days’…what was once a landmark is gone and like so many other landmarks the Del Haven Hotel and Cottages disappeared as the times, economy and demands changed. Its day is gone…but not forgotten. And with thanks to George Donhauser the name Del Haven carries on in the name of his service station on Conowingo Road.
Life is but all too fleeting, and as you walk and breathe in your own particular time the present is what’s real and your surroundings are what are vivid. A quick call to the take out shop, an even quicker stop at the 7-Eleven to pick up that something you have to have and time sure does move fast. These recollections may help slow the pace a bit and the snapshot of a simpler time…not easier by any means, just less baggage…may offer a glimpse into a time and place almost forgotten, but not just yet.
What started out as a simple, small project for a friend turned out to be one of much larger significance and understanding…of the way things were in Bel Air many years ago…for that opportunity I am grateful.
Thank you for the walk back in time. ”Greek irwin) was a good barber. but when got to drinking. the razor some times seemed like it got to close.
Yes he was known for fireing his rifle at reuben’s. the early 60’s brought the teenagers & drag raceing. the 1/4 mile strip was marked out just below reuben’s
What a great article and pics. It really makes you think of a time gone by. Let’s make this time work for the best.
What a fantastic article. Brought back so many fond memories. Loved the part about the “little hotel” As a very young child I always believed that Nuns lived there – what an imagination! Great work Todd! Must have spent months on research to write this and it was so accurate.
Mrs. Felica Jackson, daughter of Felix Irwin, would be another good person to talk to about the good old days.
I am very pleased with the use of the property and cottage across from Del Plaza they keep the site immaculate.
Stopped in over the weekend and purchased some fall decorations.
Fascinating. Thanks for a great glimpse into Bel Air’s past!
Todd;
Judging from the Dagger archives, it has been published for a little over 2 years and I first heard of it in this email. I regret not knowing about it sooner and I thank you for sending this link. I particularly enjoyed the article on Del Haven, which had it’s hay day a little before my time in Bel Air, although I do remember a white building with a drive through wooden canopy and a railing around the top. My memory of 60 years ago is not as good as it used to be so my recollection of the building may not be accurate and is not at all like the pictures in your article. My time in Bel Air would be about 1950 to 1962 (age 13 to 25) which was during the time the original buildings were still standing. I vaguely remember the cottages that I could see from Moore’s Mill Road but I do not think I ever even drove through Del Haven. Wish I had now. Thanks for the memories and I am sending the link to several friends and relatives who I think will enjoy the Dagger. I will copy you on my email.
Bob
Wow, what memories! As a newly arrived 9 year old I almost drowned in the Del Haven pool. My uncle Reuben owned ‘Reuben’s Drive In’ and my mother, Reubens Sister-in-Law, with 3 kids had just arrived while moving from Florida and were living with Uncle Reuben and his family before finding a home. Mother took us to Del Haven for swimming lessons and I jumped into the pool, feet first, with no idea how deep the water was. It was well over my head and I had to be rescued. My mother began working at Reuben’s and my swimming lessons continued.
Anybody remember Reuben’s as a gas station and the “Suzie Q’s” (1947).
Todd, could you do a story on the begining of the business that ultimately became Reuben’s?
Ron,
Are there any of Reuben’s family still in Harford county?
Ray,
Rueben was married to my mother’s sister Virginia. None of my family remain in the county but I don’t know about Reubens immediate family or his relatives. He had 6 children as I remember; Betty(who married locally), Barbara (now deceased), Jack and Billie, and I don’t remember the other two but could find out through my sister. He also had a brother named Sherman who had two children. The boy is deceased and the girl is in Harford County married to a friend of mine. Names escape me but I could find out, I believe her last name should be Garret and she is in Dublin.
Rueben and Virgina were my Grandparents. Barbara was my mother. Uncle Mike and Aunt Vickie were their other two children. I would love to hear more about the Bel Air drive in as this is where my Father met my Mother while serving in the Army.
Nancy?? Silver gave swimming lessons to the local kids at the Del Haven pool.
word had it back when Reuben was getting started, and business was booming, the land his drive-in was on was owned by the F.M Irwin family…and they were reluctant to give Reuben Leftwich a lease longer than 12 months at a time…not sure why that was, but that’s what the word was…and Reuben perservered and his place along with Bob Comes’ White Star in Edgewood became classics.
Reuben liked to hit the sauce. That’s why!
Can only imagine what Del Haven was like in its hay-day
As for the teen ager’s. it was the most popular hang out. Gino’s & the Harvey House had not yet emerged. saturday night drag raceing was common.
I guess for some reason the twin kiss restaurant. was never popular with the kid’s. then along came the jarrettsville pike. of which credit must given to the local state police. who constantly tried to end the drag raceing.
It was not and uncommon practice. for those officers to pay your parent’s a visit. to let them know what Mommy’s baby boy was doing.
My grandfather is Felix M. Irwin. My Dad is Felix M. Irwin, Jr. and I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters. We all have been very proud to be members of the Irwin family. A little history is that my Grandfather’s Del Haven was the first motel on the east coast.
The first motel on the west coast is in San Luis Obispo, CA..
My grandmother told us that she started the motel business by letting people set up tents on their property on the way from Baltimore to Florida. She takes credit for saming her pennys and erecting the cabins that eventually turned out to be Del Haven.
There was also a little miniature golf course and a little zoo.
Anyway, I am so grateful to find this article with the pictures, thanks so much! Sincerely, Karen
Thanks Karen…I tried to interview your parents but they were pretty busy at the time. I’m pleased that you enjoyed the article. Thank you for your comment.
Hi Mr. Holden,
I just reread your article and enjoyed it so much. My family also had a Del Haven in College Park, MD. My father, Felix “Buddy” Irwin managed it with my mother and they lived in a little apartment over the maintenance room in back of the motel. There is a neat trivia fact that you might like to know, the White House front building of the motel was built over Rhodes Tavern, which as a kid I didn’t realize how amazing that was. It was a cellar under neath the house with a giant fire place and mud floor. Now I realize that the steel hangings that were on the wall were for slaves to be chained. Very creepy. There was a historical sign out front that stated George Washngton slept there, which my Dad always laughed about because he said ol George really got around, but unfortunately when my Dad sold the property – with much reluctance rt. 95 veared off business – Ikea
tore down the White House structure also demolishing Rhodes Tavern underneath and all the historical treasures along with it. I stopped by the side of the road coming home from U of MD where I worked and managed to get some of the old hand made bricks, but I don’t know what happened to the artifacts that were there from centurys before.
Anyway, I hope you enjoyed reading this, you really amazed me with your
writing.
Sincerely,
Karen
I have been pouring over many old photos from my mother’s attic. Amidst the pile is a business card for the Del Haven White House Cottages, with F.M. Irwin listed as owner-manager. This is where my parents stayed while they were vacationing in Washington back in the early 1950s. I have share this site with my mother, and it has brought back many fine memories. Thank you.
I recall Reuben’s as a child (I grew up in Aberdeen, but once or twice we stopped at Reuben’s. I cannot recall ever seeing the Del Haven.
Hi, I’m a member of the Irwin family and well remember what a treat it was to go to Reuben’s with my dad, Felix Irwin, Jr. What a huge and special treat it was to wander in for an order of the Suzie Q’s, which were thin curls of french fries, cooked to a perfect crispiness. I’ve never had any so good since those days. We sat at the counter on stools and sometimes I was allowed ice cream as well as a coke and fries. The cokes were served in the old-fasioned bulb glasses so that the crunchy ice would all rise neatly to the top. Reuben had one of those Kit-Kat clocks with the swinging tail and shifting eyes; it hung on the wall between the register and the front door, which I remember as always open. Reuben was a jolly fellow who liked to invent new drinks to entertain us. My favorite was the blend of iced tea and fresh orange juice which he decorated with a cherry. If I had any dimes or quarters, they were immediately fed into the wonderful old jukebox. I was too young to know many songs but I loved to watch the mechanics of the 45 records sliding out, plopping onto the turntable, and spinning silently until the metal arm came out to rest its needle on the groove. First selection was always the theme from the television show “Bonanza”, song matter-of-factly by Lorne Greene. Often my father sat talking ‘business’ with Reuben, business which consisted of sampling menu items to see if they were still up to snuff–of course, that was joke, an excuse to nibble at the irresistible offerings. Gossip would be exchanged. Reuben always had a new joke or riddle; I remember him as a jolly guy whose eyes would suddenly narrow when he got serious about some topic. Reuben’s Diner was just plain fun and it was always with a sense of happy satisfaction that we left, vowing not to reveal to my grandmother that we had already eaten. So my father and I would sit through a second dinner at her house, exchanging smiles of happy conspiracy and the shared memory of Susie Q’s. To this day, I wonder how Reuben cut them because they would be long, long curls of slivered potato, perfect in symmetry and springiness. My dad had served as a soda jerk at Del Haven when he was growing up so he was picky about his milk shakes–it seemed only Reuben could make one to satisfy so completely.
thanks for sharing your memories Cheryl…it all adds to the story.
Todd-Thanks for the memories! I remember Del Haven as a grocery store-not much memory of the cabins and pool. However I do remember the good times at Reubens!!!. A 50’s gathering place for us kids. A lot of fun and laughs, a rumble or two-one in particular was not much fun. Roger Rice, Ronnie North and you would entertain us with jokes. Yes, we would meet there before going to Mt Tabor Church, Rock Spring or Delta to drag race. I did not race my 51 ford-just watched the big boys-Spicers, Golliday, Moon, Hammerbacker, etc. Thanks again for sharing the memories.
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